I’m getting SO sick of trying to come up with reasons for not hanging out with my vanilla friends when I’m attending kinky events. There’s only so much “happy hour…” “met through a friend” and whatnot I can pull-off. I mean, it’s great that I have a lot of people wanting to hang out. I get that I’m usually the planner, so people turn to me to plan things on weekends, and when I have plans that don’t involve them, people get really curious. Still, I don’t know how the hell I’m going to play off the 4P event tomorrow.