Kinky Getting to Know You from Fetlife

Kinky Questions: Getting to know you.

  1. Are you open to play with others? Were I in a committed relationship, I’d be open to my partner playing with others under certain conditions. One, play would not be sexual unless we had discussed it beforehand or were both involved. (What is considered “sexual” is something we would have to determine together – groping isn’t the same thing as intercourse, etc.) Two, we’d get one another’s consent before playing with someone else.
  2. Do you oral? I enjoy giving it, but I’ve never received it so can’t say on that front.
  3. Do you do anal? I never have, but I’m open to trying it with the right person. 
  4. Are you the top, bottom, switch or neither? Definitely bottom, although I’d be open to switching once in a very blue moon for the right person.
  5. Do you have limits? Of course! 
  6. So do you get/give play punishment/real punishment/no punishment? I’m open to play punishment, but real punishment is a deeper power exchange dynamic that I’m not looking for at this point.
  7. Do you Roleplay? I haven’t, but I would.
  8. If you could only do one sexual act for the rest of your life what would it be? What counts as a sexual act? Probably intercourse, if I really had to choose.
  9. How about some Bondage? Of course! I ❤ bondage, especially with rope.
  10. Would you play with someone of the same gender? I’d play in the kinky sense without sex. As for sexual play, I’m open to maybe making out or groping, but nothing more than that.
  11. What is the first thing you notice about a person that turns you on? Their humor and whether or not they smile easily, their general demeanor/Toppiness, or height.
  12. If you saw your significant other with someone else you would think? With someone else of which gender, in what context? It all depends on the details.
  13. How do you feel about hair pulling? I love it! I really get off on someone playing with and pulling on my hair, the harder the better. I also really like playing with my partner’s hair.
  14. Candles and massage or whips and chains? Candles and massage. You can always use the wax or hands for pain if that’s your game. Don’t get me wrong, though, I’d be down to try out the whips and chains too, but if I had to pick one I’d pick the sensual option.
  15. How do you feel about nakedness? I’m not as comfortable nude as a lot of kinky people are, blame it on a combination of modesty and self-consciousness, but I’m ok with getting naked with my partner for sexy fun times. If I don’t trust that they’re attracted to me at that point, than I wouldn’t be at that point. I’ve never really had it be an issue.
  16. Do you like porn, dirty pictures or erotica? Erotica, by far. I read it, write it, enjoy it. That said, I’ve really never been great at finding free photos or porn, and I don’t pay for it, so I’m not really that experienced with the other options.
  17. What’s your dirty little secret? What’s considered a dirty little secret really depends on the audience/who you are. If you’re a vanilla friend, all this – everything contained or referred to in this blog – is my secret. If you’re a kinky friend, I guess it’s that I’m not as sexually experienced as pretty much everyone else in this community (at least those I’ve come across). 
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