Yes, this is a book. Find How to Be Interesting (In 10 Simple Steps) by Jessica Hagy on Amazon.
First off, I was bound to like this book at least a little because the author is also the author of Indexed, one of my favorite daily weblog reads. I’m a data nerd, if you couldn’t tell. I literally have a pinterest board dedicated to infographics.
If you ever doubted I’m quirky, the fact that I read a book on being interesting should give me away. A kinky friend had tweeted about it, so I picked up a copy. As other online reviewers note, I wish I’d grabbed a physical copy instead of a digital one, because the graphics would make great coffee table conversation starters.
Overall, easy read, a lot of pointing out the obvious. Important to note – interesting doesn’t mean things will be good or go your way. I felt that in some of the advice, in that following the recommendations likely would take you on an interesting journey, but one with many ups and downs. Not that that is a bad thing, but still.
Things I bookmarked:
- Reclaim your spare moments.
- What’s known to you is often a mystery to others.
- Don’t wait for invitations when you can host.
- If it is unappetizing: Do not eat, date, or sign up for it. If the mere thought of it is depressing: Do not major in it, sit through it, or devote your life to it. If it is not important to you: Do not do it only because it is important to someone else.
- Irony gets in the way of experience. Drop the pretense, and you’ll have room to carry the day.
- You have treasured people, places, and things. They are precious and powerful. Fight for them. Don’t just let them lounge in the back of your mind.
- You are not wrong to be unique. You are not incorrect because you are different. You should not be sorry for being interesting.
- If you want to matter, you have to climb all the way into the mess that is before you.
- If you’re arrogance is more obvious than your expertise, you are someone other people avoid.
- Your greatest accomplishments, no matter how impressive you think them to be, are someone else’s worst nightmare.
- Don’t feel terrible for wanting something. Save the guilt for never giving yourself the chance to try.
- The more you absorb, the more you can exude.
- Avoid people who make you feel crappy. Don’t return their calls or take their antagonistic bait. The only way to win their game is to quit playing along. Besides, no one is fascinated by your constant irritation.
- Most people, even the nasty ones, are doing the best they can.
Motivational, right? All are things I regularly try to remind myself of when dating and interacting with folks. Sometimes, when people come to me for advice, I think I shove some of these down their throat inadvertently.